Because I have no pictures of progress on the house to show you, I figured I'd throw this topic out for debate....
We have one last baby related shopping spree to go on to finish buying all the
'necessities' we need to bring Lily Ann home. I have a feeling that my husband defines 'necessities' differently than I do! There are two items on the list that I am having trouble with.
Can you experienced mommas help me out?
The Baby Swing
I argue that this is a necessity to have when she comes home. I know that the rocking can
soothe some babies who otherwise could be quite fussy. What if Lily Ann is fussy and the
only thing that soothes her is the gentle rocking of a swing? I want to have this on hand just for that possibility. Lucas argues that she
may not like the swing and it would be better to maybe test her out on our friend's swing before investing
$150 in a
big plastic contraption to set in our family room. But it might be a few weeks before we travel to their house to test it out. That is a few weeks that it
could be needed. But we won't know if we don't have one. I want to go ahead and get it with our registry completion coupon
(10% off ~ whenever BabiesRUs gets around to sending us the coupon). Lucas would rather spend the extra $15 later.
Sigh. Such a life altering decision, I know.Landon,
our friend's baby, didn't like his swing for the first month or so but eventually grew to like it. Did your baby use his/her swing from
Day 1 or did it take
time for them to actually enjoy it? Do we
need this when we come home from the hospital or should I
wait a month or so?
Or does she need it at all?
The Wipes Warmer
Our same non-swing loving baby friend loves his wipes warmer. I mean -
who wouldn't? This is a fairly simple purchase that I would buy without thought except for one little problem:
where do I put the thing? There is no extra room on the changing table; I don't have a table near the changing table; I really don't want to hang shelves on the wall to display ugly diaper paraphernalia. I am using the top drawer of the dresser to house all of her diapering needs. I thought about drilling a hole in the back of the dresser and setting the warmer in the drawer, but mom mentioned this might be a
fire hazard I wouldn't want in the nursery.
So, do I really
need the wipes warmer? Will it make the diaper changing process go smoother? Because I'm
all for that. I want little Lily to be as
happy as she can be.
If I don't wipe her butt with a warm wipe am I a bad mother? (Okay, I know the answer to that but humor me.)
What else did you consider a
'necessity' in the first few days at home with your baby? I want to be
fully prepared but feel I am falling somewhere
short of that goal.